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I’ve been with my wonderful husband for 14 years, and I’m delighted with my relationship. Having said that, when I provide dating and relationship coaching, I do find myself reflecting fondly on the last few years of being single before I met David. Back then, I’d learned how to relax about dating, and I was having a great time.

A long time ago, I wrote a column about how to reduce stress. It began by defining stress as our personal, inner reaction to something that we’re experiencing. For example, if you get into a car accident, your way of thinking, understanding, believing, feeling, and determining what must be done about it contribute to how much stress you feel about the situation.

I’m a huge fan of the University of Connecticut Women’s basketball team. So, forgive me while I indulge in a quick brag by mentioning that they just won their eighth NCAA championship last week. Count ’em: eight!